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How Experiencing Loss Can Change Our Faith: Choosing Courageous Growth in Trials

By Amy Debrucque

God's Brave Women - Amy's Story


“There is a difference between having a childlike faith and being a childish Christian.”


While leaving our friend Mike's funeral, I felt somewhat conflicted. Mike had passed away from a brain tumor in his mid-20s.


Walking away from such sadness, yet having the ability to walk away because it didn’t directly affect me left me feeling both awkward and relieved. I even remember saying in my head at the time, I could never imagine anything like that happening.


Even now, when I repeat that thought I had almost 30 years ago, I can't help but think what a huge red flag it was in my faith journey. Not just because of my naivety in thinking my family was invincible, but also because it showcased how unprepared I was should something devastating ever happen to me or my family.


 

"I can't help but think what a huge red flag it was in my faith journey. Not just because of my naivety in thinking my family was invincible, but also because it showcased how unprepared I was should something devastating ever happen to me or my family."